Decisions Are the Most Important

I’ve always believed that the decisions you make are the most important things in life. They shape who you are, where you go, and how you live. That’s why I think you should spend most of your time thinking, understanding, and deciding what’s right for you—and what’s not.

Most people make decisions quickly and deal with the consequences later. But here’s the thing: good decisions take time.

Why Decisions Matter

Let me give you an example.

Imagine you want to get a job. This isn’t just about earning money; it’s about building a career, learning new skills, and shaping your future. So, shouldn’t you spend months researching everything about it? Which school to go to, which course to take, which country to work in, which language to learn—these are all decisions that require time and thought.

But what do most people do? They make quick decisions based on what others are doing. And later, they regret it.

Decisions in Relationships

Now, let’s talk about relationships.

If you’re planning to marry someone, you’re not just committing to a few years—you’re committing to 40 or 50 years of your life. That’s a huge decision! So, shouldn’t you spend at least 2-3 years understanding the person, their values, and whether they’re the right fit for you?

Yet, many people rush into relationships or marriages without truly knowing the other person. And when things don’t work out, they wonder why.

Decisions Define Your Life

Here’s the truth: your life depends on the decisions you make.

• If you’re investing in the stock market, picking the right stock can change your financial future.
• If you’re choosing who to spend your time with, the right people can inspire and uplift you.
• If you’re deciding on a life partner, the right person can make your journey meaningful and joyful.

Every decision, big or small, has the power to shape your life. That’s why it’s so important to take your time and think carefully.

Free Up Time to Decide

One of the best pieces of advice I can give you is this: free up as much time as you can to make decisions.

The more time you have, the better you can think, analyze, and choose. Don’t let the pressure of others or the fear of missing out force you into quick decisions.

Whether it’s about your career, your relationships, or your personal growth, take the time to decide what’s truly right for you.

What About You?

So, here’s a question for you:

Are you making decisions quickly, or are you taking the time to think them through?

I’d love to hear your thoughts. Feel free to email me and share your perspective.

Thanks for reading. :)

Best, Tarak

Remember: Your life is a result of the decisions you make. Choose wisely, take your time, and don’t be afraid to think deeply.